In short
Olivia Raven is a discreet dating site run by Ambervine Inc, a Delaware company. The name is a brand, not a person. Joining and browsing are free; reading and replying to messages needs a paid membership that renews until cancelled in Settings > Billing. Profiles are shared with partner sites in the same network, and members must be 18 or over.
| Run by | Ambervine Inc |
|---|---|
| Billing name | Shown at checkout |
| Minimum age | 18 |
| Cancel | Settings > Billing |
| Delete | Avatar > Settings > Delete Account |
The essentials
Olivia Raven is a discreet dating site with guides written for women first and for people exploring open relationships. These are the facts most people want before they join.
| Fact | Detail |
|---|---|
| What it is | A discreet dating site, with guides written for women first and for people exploring open relationships |
| The name | A brand name, not a real person; no connection with anyone who shares it |
| Operator | Ambervine Inc, a Delaware company, 131 Continental Drive, Suite 305, Newark, DE 19713, USA |
| Main audience | Adults in Ireland and the UK |
| Minimum age | 18 |
| Joining | Email address, password and date of birth; most profiles need at least one photo |
| Card statement | The billing name shown at checkout |
| Renewal | Automatic until cancelled in Settings > Billing |
| Refunds | Pro-rata only when at least 40% of the paid period is unused, under the members terms |
| Profiles | Shared with partner sites in the same network; their members can see and message you |
| Photos | Reviewed before they appear; no nudity or lingerie |
| Profile text | Not checked by the platform |
| ID badge | Optional and paid (LEM Verify, photo ID and selfie); required only for some sign-ups, such as via a VPN or a flagged account |
| Delete account | Avatar > Settings > Delete Account |
| Members terms | Governed by Delaware law, with arbitration and a class-action waiver |
Who it's for
Olivia Raven is for adults aged 18 and over. The guides are written for women first, including women in relationships who want to explore, and for anyone in an open or non-monogamous relationship where a partner knows and agrees. Men are welcome to join; the members area works the same way for everyone. About Olivia Raven explains what "women first" does and doesn't mean.
What's free and what's paid
Browsing is free; conversation is paid. A free account lets you look around properly before you decide whether anyone is worth paying to talk to.
| Free | Needs a paid membership |
|---|---|
| Joining and building a profile | Reading messages |
| Browsing other members | Replying to messages |
| Receiving interest | Read receipts |
| Seeing who viewed you, and likes | |
| Viewing photos in full |
Free members also see adverts. Optional extras, such as profile boosts and the ID badge, are sold separately.
Prices
The members area shows each plan and its exact price before you pay. Prices have been shown in US dollars, so if you pay with a euro or sterling card, your bank converts the amount and may add a fee.
| Join, create a profile, browse | Free |
|---|---|
| Read and reply to messages | Paid membership (weekly and monthly plans) |
| Optional extras | Such as profile boosts and an ID-verified badge |
The members area shows the exact price of each plan, and the billing name for your statement, before you pay. Memberships renew automatically until you cancel in Settings > Billing.
More on renewals and refunds is on the prices page.
What you can set on a profile
A profile can include your gender, sexuality, the gender you're looking for, an age range and distance, and optional details such as languages, religion, ethnicity, children, smoking and drinking. You choose how much to fill in. The privacy checklist for women explains which details are best left out.
Where to go next
- How the service works, step by step: how it works
- Who's behind the brand: about Olivia Raven
- Statements, inbox and the shared network: privacy and discretion
- What's checked and how to report: staying safe
- Logging in, cancelling and deleting: account help
Questions people ask
Is Olivia Raven free?
Joining, creating a profile, browsing and receiving interest are free. Reading and replying to messages needs a paid membership, as do extras such as seeing who viewed you and read receipts. Free members also see adverts. The members area shows the price of every plan before you pay.
Which countries can join?
The members area accepts sign-ups from Ireland and the UK, including the Channel Islands and the Isle of Man, as well as the US, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, South Africa and Portugal. The guides on this site are written for readers in Ireland and the UK.
What will my card statement show?
Look at the billing name shown at checkout before you confirm a payment: that is the name to expect on your statement. Renewals appear the same way, so a charge you don't recognise is often a membership that is still renewing.
Are profiles checked?
Photos are reviewed before they appear, but what members write about themselves is not checked. ID verification is an optional paid badge, so most members won't have one. Treat every profile as a claim until you've had a video call.
Keep reading
- Want to open your relationship? How to start the conversationHow to raise opening your relationship, agree boundaries you can keep, handle jealousy and check in after a month.
- Online dating privacy for women: a practical checklistA step-by-step checklist: email, photos, profile details, messaging, meeting, devices, payments and leaving.
- Ethical non-monogamy explainedOpen relationships, swinging, polyamory and the words people use, plus what makes non-monogamy ethical.
- Going back to monogamy: closing an open relationshipHow to raise going back to monogamy, end outside connections kindly, and rebuild trust between you.
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Checked 18 October 2026. Spotted something out of date? Tell us.